Or is it the other person always reaching out to you?
No your not considering them a friend, but they consider you a friend.
But... In some cases people can go awhile before really having a conversation and pick up as if they never were apart. But really they still send the random text or message vice versa. Because they really are friends.
Tonight I am aware of how many more I have considered a friend and how much I try to reach out to others, but they don't do the same. Am I a friend to them? Or should I stop bothering? Tomorrow is the 10year reunion of my graduating class. But I will not be attending for multiple reasons. But there are people coming in and I catch wind of it, but have not been messaged or reached to meet up. My friendship dies tonight with these people... They are just lurkers in my life, watching a silent movie and not even bothering to interact. I feel like a frozen photograph trapped and collecting dust, or a discarded painting that is chipping away... I'm a thing of the past for so many... So should they as well to me.
It's dead weight anyway and I can't try to carry it anymore.
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Never hang on to dead weight. I did that for a year and a half, to no avail. It wasn't a friendship, it was a running joke with a bad punch line. Trust me, you shall not miss these people.
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